More tips!

I am quite rapidly running out of tips due to my inexperience as a transvestite, but that should grow over the next few weeks so it will be fine hehe. One thing I can suggest though, it may just be a strange thing with me but I think it should work for everyone, wear a womens swimming costume while you work out. Or one of those exercise leotard type things. I find that if I tuck my delicates away and do my butt workout (which will be appearing on here shortly) then I feel quite aroused at the end of it, but its a very different type of arousal. Much more feminine I think, but I could be wrong and it could just be different. After a nice long workout though I am pretty darned frisky but not in a whip my dick out and get some quick relief kind of a way, more of a desire for something slow and sensual and to have a proper orgasm. I'm going to take some pictures of me in my sexy bathing suit in a bit and put them up for the friday photoshoot so you can see how I look when I workout.

But I feel this is a bit of a short post if I leave it at that so I'm going to link to some other websites filled with tips on feminizing yourself.

Transbetty - they have all sorts on here so take a look, you may just learn something new.

Crossdresserheaven - this seems to be in a blog format but looks like it has some good stuff on there.

Danistroom - mainly a chat site I think, haven't really used the site much but it does have some good information on there too.

These are just  few of the many sites out there, remember google is your friend and I will also be putting up my favourite sites at a later date.

Todays presents!

Today my Mum came in while I was half asleep before she went to work and gave me 2 electric lady shavers and a thing which I think is one of those ultrasound tweezer type electric gizmos. I'm not sure how effective they are but I will ask her if she still has the instructions for it. This is all because I told her about an epilator on ebay that was on the daily deal yesterday which I liked and apparently she has one somewhere. So it looks like I am going to get to try out all sorts of different hair removal techniques :) I'm going to see which one I like the most and write a review for each so that hopefully they can help inform you as to which one is best for you. Soon I should be hairless again though :) Just going to wait until I have come out to my friend properly before I get rid of pretty much all my body hair :)

Penelope Cruz

I really like Penelope Cruz and I'm going to watch more films with her in that's for sure as she is absolutely gorgeous as well as being talented. I'm looking forward to finally being able to see Vicky Christina Barcelona. Here are some pics of her just dressed down a bit though, although a couple of them are from photoshoots she's not exactly dressing to impress but still looks pretty stunning in them I think. I'm hoping that looking at pictures like these I can learn what goes together a little better for future reference when I finally get enough money to buy my own stuffs. Although in these photos Penelope Cruz may look a little more no the serious side I think that's because she doesn't really want to be photographed in some and the others are moody looks on purpose for the photoshoots. She seems to have a wonderfully cheeky side too and a great smile, I'll make sure to put up some pics of it next time around hehe :)

Shopping on a saturday again

 Today I'm looking for some high heels because I really want some and there's that little part of me that thinks I desperately need them, but that is a little silly isn't it? So here are some links to places that sell womens shoes in a size 9.5 or 10 as that is the size I take. If you are lucky enough to take a size 8 or less then there are some links at the bottom to some other sites but you can basically have your pick from any shoe retailer as that seems to be the standard.

Lightinthebox has some good prices on there if you navigate your way around it. I'm not 100% sure how it works postage wise .etc But they have some really good prices on there and I have some new shoes on my wishlist thanks to them so take a little look. They have a lot of stuff on there not just womens shoes.

Debenhams have some more affordable shoes on there store and they also have quite a few in a size 10 which is really nice. Plus as they are debenhams they have lots of clothes and other extras on there for you to make the most of :) Check out their offers.

Deichmann also have a nice range of very affordable looking shoes in larger sizes. Up to a size UK10 and EU44. I'm definitely considering getting a pair....just gotta save up the moneys!

Alternativefootwear also have a pretty good range in sizes up to a UK13/46EU! So if you have feet on the larger side they should have something on there for you. Some VERY sexy shoes on there too, of course you have to pay a little bit more for their cheapest pair but they are more likely to fit nicely and be well made so I would think the difference is worth it.The prices actually seem very reasonable to me.

Pricelessshoes has unsurprisingly quite a few shoes on it, but it also has prices which is pretty useful hehe. Don't forget to enter TREAT as the code to get your 25% off if you buy something there as well as POST40 to get postage free on an order over £40. I'm not sure how long that will last but it is on there today, Saturday 24th November 2012.

Bigshoeboutique is very similar as it is actually the same company as pricelesshoes I think. Has the same offers and has a good range of shoes too.

Banana Shoes seem to have a very nice range on there and they look like they sell high quality shoes despite having a less flashy website. Unfortunately pretty much everything on this site is out of my price range, but then I have a really small budget at the moment so if you have a little bit of money to spend take a look and you might something you want.

Here is one of my recent favourite findings and thats the idea of the £5 store. Basically a pound shop but 5x better hehe. They have all sorts of clothing and stuff on them that you can buy and everything is a fiver. This is my favourite one of them so far and if you have size 8 or smaller feet then you are in luck as they have a lot of shoes on there for you to choose from! Also Woownow seem to have quite a lot on there for pretty low prices too so make sure you check them out too.

Also here are my favourites so far in the form of my Amazon shoe wishlist. I'll put links to my various wishlists after I have tinkered with them tomorrow. I'm supposed to be christmas shopping for other people but I keep getting distracted by discounts on dress, BOGOF's on Bras and sales on shoes!

Woohoooo friday in front of the camera!

It was photoshoot friday again today so I got to have some fun with a camera I've borrowed off a friend. It was really fun but I didn't end up with many pictures that I actually like. Here are 3 though of me in a sort of secretary type outfit. I'm thinking of doing it again with one of my smaller mens shirts to see what that looks like too. I hope you like them :)

 

New polls and nail polish removal

Yesterday I finally, begrudgingly, removed my toe nail polish. It was really easy to do thankfully so if you are yet to do it for the first time then don't fret because it only takes a couple of minutes and then you will have lovely clean nails once again, ready for painting once more! Hehe. I need to get some base coat and top coat before I paint my nails again though I think because then I can keep them that way for around a month. Apparently if you don't put a base coat on your nails and you leave nail varnish on them for too long then the nails can start to go yellowy and I don't know about you but that sounds a little bit disgusting to me so I think I will be steering clear from that as much as I can.

It was really simple to do though, thanks to some basic instructions from my Mum. All it took was two cotton balls, one for each foot, some nail polish remover and some rubbing. I also found that I think I could do it all with one cotton ball if I soaked it a little more thoroughly like I did with the second one but hey-ho. All you do is put the cotton ball in the opening of the bottle of the nail polish remover so that it covers it completely. Then tip the bottle very gently so that you can see the liquid going into the cotton ball, you will also feel it on your fingers pretty quickly. Once the cotton ball feels moist but not soggy you then remove it. Make sure you put the lid back on the bottle! You don't want to tip it over by accident and then have a horrible dissolving mess. Then all you have to do is press the soaked side of the cotton ball to your painted nail and rub gently. I find rubbing in little circles worked pretty well for me, but feel free to rub however you like. Make sure you rub off all the nail polish though. Also I found that rubbing once or twice over each nail to start with before concentrating on each one individually was good because it made sure that they all had some pure nail polish remover on them. Don't forget to buff out the nail polish on the ends of your nails using a nail file or emery board too :)

I had a shower soon after I had done mine, I'm not sure if you are supposed to wash your nails right after but I would suggest that having a shower fairly shortly afterwards would be a good idea. Just to keep yourself clean if anything hehe :) Don't shower too much though or you'll just end up with sore skin and rashes! Now my nails are clean though they look really weird to me. I am so tempted to put more nail polish on but I will wait. Next time I think I am going to do my finger nails too :)

Now for my other news! I have done a new pole page on my other blog. There are some questions of a kinky/sexual nature on there so if you find that sort of thing offensive or distasteful then keep clear. Otherwise please fill out it and just answer everything openly and honestly :) There are only 12 questions on it shouldn't take you very long but the answers will be really helpful to me :) I'm going to setup a questionnaire to ask on here as well which will be much more focused on finding out more information about all sorts of things transvestite related in regards to peoples habits, experiences .etc

Outfit of the Weeeeeek!

Outfit of the week is back today with the stunning Scarlett Johansson in a purple dress. She seems to be a favourite among my friends and I have to say she is very gorgeous, although if we have to decide based on looks I do prefer a darker skin tone. But that's just me hehe :) She's stunning and has a wonderful smile and wears this dress really well. I have no idea where she got it from or how much it cost, only that there is no way I'm getting my hands on one any time soon unfortunately hehe. If you happen to have this dress and don't want it, due to some sort of madness or emotional reason, then please get in touch because I will happily take it off your hands for the very reasonable price of free! Hehehe! So here she is in all her glory, Scarlett Johansson in a purple dress.

Getting back in the swing!

The lovely regulars may have noticed the new Gallery and Competitions pages that have gone up, they have taken a little work to get right but I am happy with them now I think. They look good on my screen anyway. I will be updating them as I go and I am hoping to come up with some more competitions and prizes soon for everyone to enter.

I want to say a very big thank you to Stella and the people at tvchix.com as they have really cheered me up over the past few days and due to this have breathed a whole new life back into these blogs. I really hope to spend a lot of time on them and on becoming a better transvestite, well person in general. If you haven't been on there then go because you never know it may just take your fancy. To all the people on there who have viewed my profile and come here then welcome, I hope you like this and I'm on the chat a fair bit so if you want to talk to me then pop on and say hello. Lets see what the next few days bring and hope for the best! 

Back to normal soon hopefully

I'm really sorry again for not posting as regularly as I feel I should be but I will be again soon. Some of the posts may be shorter than before but at least there will be new and relevant content going on here for you all to enjoy. It's just that I have been feeling pretty lonely as a transvestite recently and quite desperate for a partner. Yet I lack the confidence to go out there and find someone to be with so it's sort of a Catch 22 situation. I'm working on my confidence gradually and I desperately hope to be able to start generating some really good stuff on here. If you're reading this and have anything to say then please leave a comment or message me or something. Doesn't really matter who you are or the content of the message, it would just be nice to know that somebody is actually reading this and that I'm not as lonely as I feel. I think the sort of self imposed chastity isn't really helping either but hey-ho I'm sure I can cope.

Sorry for the lack of posts and consistency

I'm really sorry for the lack of posts and consistency this past week but I've just had a bad couple of days inside my brain tank. Still not in a very happy place. Mainly doubting myself and annoyed with myself and not writing these posts isn't helping but also I fear that what I would write wouldn't be worth reading really. Feel like I'm in the middle of a sad brain fog, but I'll be fine soon and posting will resume. I'm really sorry though and hope that you are all having fun and enjoying yourselves :)

Favourite Style of Underwear?

One item of women's clothing I really love has to be the panties. So soft and gentle on your delicates in comparison to my male underwear that I am starting to really wish that I only wore women's underpants. What's hard though is deciding on a favourite style. I can easily say which ones I don't like, those are the big high waisted, covered in frills or ruffles, which just look like they would be awkward to wear anything over. I like panties more dainty and cute but it is all just a matter of preference really. Some cuts are really nice because they make my butt look pert, sexy and girly which is just wonderful I think. I'm a big fan of thongs and g-strings but they don't exactly offer up much protection for my manly bits and having your manhood poking out the side is one of the least sexy things really, not to mention the discomfort that can happen from it. Of course you have to make sure you get the right size too otherwise you my find you can't get them up your thighs or they just keep flying back down them hehe, although some people may see that as a bonus :P

I am yet to try on all the different styles of women's underwear but would really love to so that I can have a more informed opinion on what my favourite style is and which are the most comfortable to wear. If you have a favourite style of panty then please let me know via e-mail at lolamahou@hotmail.co.uk or leave a comment below. Here is a guide to the various styles, currently my favourites are the boy-short/ lace bikini style and the thong. Let me know what you think :)

Better than waterboobs!

After a quick search on Google it is evident that breast forms are available in lots of different varieties and prices. What I also find a little funny is that the bigger the boobs the more they cost, which makes sense and I think is very useful. Stops you from buying too big just for fun as you have to think is it worth the extra money. You can even get them on Amazon, so when I pick a favourite they are going on my wishlist for sure! Also you may find rather rapidly that you can also get these things which are called chicken fillets or breast enhancers. What they seem to be are essentially smaller breast forms that are just used to enhance boobs that you already have. A wonderful transsexual friend of mine uses them and they look really good on her. You don't need a lot of boob to use them and they are quite a bit cheaper than breast forms, so you could look at them as a sort of starter breast form if you like and give them a go before investing more money on a proper breast form. Now the breast forms themselves seem to come in 2 styles I think, just loose or attached to a bra type mechanism. You can get some which are bras with filled cups, others you can get with see through straps that go around you. Too see them on Amazon go here. I much prefer the loose ones I think because I would want to be able to wear my own bra comfortable over the top without too many straps going on. If you are looking for more deals though I would suggest Ebay as they sell a lot on there, just be careful though as some of them may be of a much lower quality than ones bought from proper online stores.

If you are really looking to invest in your breasts then you're obviously going to need to shop around. I'd suggest having a look at thebreastformsstore. Also check out hourglassfigure although they are more expensive they do have some nice things on there, so if you have quite a bit of money to spend then you could try there. Although I think you could probably get the same stuff elsewhere for cheaper, I could be wrong. But you should definitely check out Translife if you are a transvestite or transsexual or you know one because they have lots of good things on there and in sizes that will actually fit too!

Damn you elusive internet!

I'm really really sorry everyone but my internet seems to be being very temperamental at the moment. It must be something to do with the lines in the area where I live because my friend who lives close by has the same problem. I'm really hoping it gets sorted soon so that I can actually put some decent posts up on here. I'm just typing this as quick as I can in order to make sure that SOMETHING goes up on here. I didn't get to take pictures for a photoshoot because a friend dragged me outta the house and out to dinner far too early. Tomorrow I will do my best to get online and find some deals on breastforms and I think also chastity belts. But we shall have to see what happens. If not then I will do them Monday as we as the reviews. I hope you are all well and having lots of fun!

Tip of the Week!

As promised in an earlier post here are my tips on making your own waterboobs. I have tried using socks as I am sure most of you wonderful transvestites out there have done too but then I wanted to progress to something a little more weighty and realistic. Waterboobs are still quite a long way from being realistic but I would certainly say they are more so than socks hehe. But don't worry if you are thinking your boobysocks are now going to go to waste because I use some with my waterboobs! All you need to make your own waterboobs are:

• 4 balloons, the stronger the better
• A tap or bottle of water (tap is easier, or even the end of the shower)
• A towel
• 2 socks, preferably soft and opaque, in a fleshy colour would be ideal but any will be fine, mine are black. If you can get elasticated ones they are good for staying on the balloon. Also if you are using small socks then you may need 2 for each balloon.

 So once you have got all of those ready then you want to proceed to enter your bathroom. You don't need to take the socks with you and I would hope the towel would already be in there. If you have a shower I have found this to be easier to use but that's a matter of preference really.

1. Place one balloon inside another. I used a red balloon inserted inside a pink balloon in an attempt to make a nice colour, it sort of worked but it doesn't really matter.  Do this again with the other two balloons so that you end up with 2 double balloons essentially. 1 set for each boob :) This will add some strength to the boobs and help stop them from bursting.
2. Place the opening of the inner balloon around the tap and gradually fill it with water. Try to get it to just over your ideal size as tying the knot can be tricky and you may find you lose some water. Don't worry too much if you make them too big or too small because I doubt you have bought a 4 pack of balloons, you can always make varying sizes and then you have different pairs to wear on different days. I recommend doing this inside the shower or bath because this whole procedure can end up with water flying everywhere hehe.
3. Once you have them filled then its time to tie the knot. This can be fairly difficult for some people and I certainly had a little trouble with it. I think the trick is to pinch near the bottom of the tubey opening and give yourself as much balloon as you can to tie the knot with. Be sure to try and eliminate air bubbles within your new boob though before you tie the not, they are pretty obvious so don't worry too much. But you can always pinch really tight and turn upside down to see. You can either tie the knots on both the inner and outer balloon at the same time or seperately, that's your choice really. I did mine together. Just make sure the knot is tied securely!
4. Now that you have your boob sealed up tightly you need to use your towel to dry it off. Make sure its nice and dry and then leave it on the towel while you go back through steps 2 and 3 for boob number 2. 
5. Once they are both dry and on your towel its time to sock them up. Either take you boobs to the socks or socks to the boobs. The reason I keep them out of the bathroom is to stop them getting accidentally wet. You don't want soggy boobs. Now slip the sock on over the balloon, twist it and fold it back. Make sure the sock is snuggly on the balloon. If you are using small socks then you may wish to use two socks on each balloon.

If you have followed steps 1-5 then you should now have a pair of waterboobs to put in your favourite bra :) Use the knots as nipples so you can have that nice slightly aroused look poking through your bra :) I really like mine and I have had them for about 2 years now I think. They really do last and if you have socks on them they are a lot more comfy. Be warned though they can be a bit chilly when you first put them on, I recommend keeping them in a cool dry place though because that's where I have mine and they seem to be fine. Well I hope you have fun with your new boobs!

Also here is a link to a transvestite forum with lots more information on making your own boobs. They have some really useful stuff on there so be sure to check it out. Just to clarify as well, if I had the money I would buy my own breast forms because according to most they seem to be very realistic and they aren't too expensive. So if you have money and want to invest more thoroughly into being a transvestite I recommend checking out ebay and online shops to find some you like. I may do that as my deal of the week this weekend actually :)